![]() ![]() Ask yourself what you would do if the situation were reversed. ![]() There are no hard-and-fast rules for the situation in which you find yourself, and some couples deal with it discreetly. When he says, “Well, divorce me then!,” ask him if he really means what he is saying because there may be another option. My struggle is the thought of leaving someone I swore “for better or worse” with, for the selfishness of “my needs.” Any advice? - NEEDY IN ALASKAĭEAR NEEDY: Raise the subject again with your husband. I am becoming judgmental and critical, and I know that living this way will make me increasingly resent him. Since the last blow-up a couple months ago, I have tried to ignore my needs, but that isn’t working. If I try to discuss “my needs,” he gets defensive and says, “File for divorce then!”ĭear Abby: I married a man for health insurance and now he won’t leave Sex was never a central part of our relationship, but the nearly complete lack of intimacy over the last 10 years has been frustrating. I can live with this situation except for the lack of intimacy and sex. ![]() Many of my friends have never met my husband, and some joke that I’m not really married. He responds to any invitation we receive with, “We will see” which turns into a “no” or “I’d rather not,” on the day of the event. At this point, everything in our life (friends, family and social life) revolves around his disease. He’s mobile but on oxygen and has lost most of his stamina. He was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease 12 years ago. Dear Abby: My husband hijacked our daughter's weddingĭear Abby: My controlling sister-in-law makes holidays a living hellĭear Abby: My wife gained weight, can I tell her?ĭear Abby: My husband sent a nude to his exĭear Abby: My boyfriend doesn't pay rent or pitch in for foodĭEAR ABBY: I’m 55 and have been married to my husband for 22 years. ![]()
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